Why do women get so bitchy? All the competition and sarcasm and the snide remarks and rolling eyes must root from some place? Whether its a dolly aunty's strong urge to spy on her neighbour's daughter or a workplace colleague's spent energy and time over the other's successes and pitfalls. Why do women bitch? At this point I must make clear one point - bitching is not the same as gossiping (men do that all the time, they love gossip). Gossip is essentially more harmless while bitchiness is a woman with a plan - there is an agenda and a specific aim, i.e. to make so and so's life miserable or to make the girl gang hate X. It stems from envy or habit but is nevertheless malicious as hell.
Most bitchy women don't resemble the soap kinds. They come in sweet packagings and never lose their calm. They manipulate and take their time to screw you. Even when they bitch they make it sound like it hurts them to do it. They are usually extra-nice, extra-helpful and go out of their way to be nice to some people, hence, the claims of the one being bitched about usually go down the drain.
But what does the victim do? There are only two solutions - Be nice, say yes and stay out of harm's way or beat them at their own game. The latter is difficult because it means you will have to cultivate the bitchy mindset and spend a lot more time in thinking strategies, tactics and "sweet" revenges. The key is to be on high alert at all times and also put in extra effort at everything you do. A lot of hard work. Good Luck!
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