Untrue because I just feel love is so over-rated and is only a manifestation of the mind that we can choose to control. I think you just come in this world alone....ur partner is just a companion through the journey but u ALONE have to find your destinyand fulfil your purpose of life - so u come alone and leave this world alone. Love is just to fill the in-between void and again one must remember that there are so many different kinds of love and you can love so many different people at the same time.
Maybe not everyone would agree with what I have to say but it isn't true then why do people fight and expect things out of each other in a relationship.....in fact its the expectation that murders a relationship. If love was true why is no love unconditioal, why aren't we selfless? We are all innately selfish and hence we are all important to ourselves. The other person will be just that the OTHER person.
At this point my friend Simrath butts in - "Good thought but what about the implementation??"
Understanding the concept of "untrue love" will help in the implementation. This thought just makes understanding between two people better. We will be happy with our partners because we know that it is ME who is here for a purpose and all will fall into place. You will expect less from the other person and you will be easy on yourself in return. Its not a pessimistic attitude towards love....its a realistic one and I'm sure it is also the route to a happier relationship....I mean after all you do want to have a pleasant journey on your way to fulfilling your destiny. Who wants to be sitting with a boring grumpy partner when you have a long potholed journey ahead?
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